How to bring back romance in a relationship
Amidst the hurly-burly of life, we often take our partners for granted. Many a word is left unsaid, and romance flies out of the window, thus making the institution of marriage a deserted place, that is devoid of love, joy and romance, Says Sudha Ramgopal, “Our priorities in life change. Besides, where is the time for coochi-cooing, when one is caught amidst a series of responsibilities?” Sudha further argues that, with kids around, demonstrating affection to the partner is restricted to a formal hug. There is one way that without consuming much of your time can bring back, the romance in your life. Flirt. Yes, flirt. Flirting happens to be one of the most well-heeled ways to express oneʼs love and unveil all tickling passions. During the courtship time the couples are very much in awe of each other and appear madly in love. But, sadly, after a few years of marriage, romance seems to fade and couples fail to express their feelings and emotions towards their partner. It is then that flirting comes to their rescue and helps to build a better understanding and keep the romantic flames alive.
A cultured flirting does wonders to a relationship and adds the needed perk to a love life. An apposite perception and a respected fence are to be drawn while flirting but married couples have the advantage of freedom when it comes to flirting as there are no precincts between the partners and thus they can march towards a real romantic life. A few ideas here may help you bring back the lost lustre and add a sparkle to your married life.
11 Ways to keep the romance alive
An unexpected touch speaks volumes
Humour Helps – Share a joke
Tease please – Teasing encourages a positive emotion
The curved line never loses its magic
Eye contact is said to be a main factor for flirting
Leave love notes
Lend a ear
Flirting can be fun
An unexpected touch speaks volumes:
No words are required, just a stroke of love expresses your feelings. Your body language automatically becomes the language of your heart. A cuddly hug, a gentle kiss or just a soft touch will bring back the thrill. Don’t wait for long hours to be together. Just grab those few minutes at hand.
Humour helps – Share a joke:
Humour helps to give a free rein to the tensions. While you laugh together you can sense love flowing in the air. A good sense of humour not only tickles your funny bones but also amuses your feelings. A wink can send chills up your partnerʼs spine. Quite an old trick but never fails to bring that million-dollar smile on his or her face. Wink at him or her when your eyes meet. A kiss in the air also sounds cool. Decode the code: Every couple has their sign or code language, if you donʼt, cultivate one now. Without doubt your spouse will be tickled pink when you speak in your very personal language that only two of you can understand.
Tease please – Teasing encourages a positive emotion:
Couples who tend to tease each other and are playful, render good vibes to their relationship.
The curved line never loses its magic:
Smile to your spouse in a certain manner that he or she will fall head over heels in love with you. You donʼt need any reason to smile, do you?
In fact, the smile itself will be a reason for something good between you two.
Eye contact is said to be a main factor for flirting:
Your eyes mirror both your confidence and your love. Need to say more? Look different: Got guts? Go for a different look. It can be anything from a new hairstyle to a complete change in your dressing style. It will certainly drop a hint.
Leave love notes:
It can be in his diary, his bag or even his pocket or socks, her wardrobe, kitchen, refrigerator. In short, think of the places he or she digs regularly.
This is the era of what’s app, SMSs and Facebook. Send bizarre e-mails, what’s app messages or SMSs. Funky or romantic e-cards can also do the trick. Bad with words? Let the emojos do the trick for you.
Lend a ear:
Listen no argument, no judgement, and no advice. Nothing! Just listen. Let him or her blurt it out. You may not agree, but listen. Your silence will convey the message that no matter what, you are always there for her or him.
She loves to be noticed, feel important and loved. Demonstrate your love wherever and whenever you can.
So what if you are not a JIO or a Hrithik Roshan? Even if you have two left feet, you can still manage to shake a leg. Itʼs the spirit that matters. Either dance with each other or dance to each other’s tunes. Both ways it is romantic.
Flirting can be fun:
A little effort and innovation can add the needed spice to your relationship and keep the excitement rocking.